Occasional Holy Man, Indifferent Bassist, Expelled Philosopher, and Maladroit Luthier Who Offers Stray, Provocative, and Insouciant Thoughts about Religion, Archaeology, Human Foible, Surfing, Interesting People, and Quirky Music. "Sent down" from Oxford. [Also, "alot" is not a word.]
I've been officiating at weddings for thirty-one years and only twice has the couple not already been, in the language of the article, "co-habitating". One couple was in their 80's when they were married and the other was separated by war and military service.